Many times in our lives we have to choose our words wisely. Is it kinder, though, to just be honest and save the individual later issues or protect their feelings and just let someone else tell them the truth.

I find it unkind to let someone continue on a path that might really embarrass them in the long or short of their upcoming life. Tell people the truth when they ask for it. It's only right and fair, but you don't have to completely tear them down. 

Just tell the truth. When you say the word, "If I'm being honest..." Then the truth should follow.