Our lives are meant to be grasped, lived, and experienced. That experience, though, sometimes comes at a cost. We will lose friends, family, and associates to our choices.
Does that make us bad? Bad because we choose what is best for us?
No, we have earned the right to make the choices that are what is best for us. We will only ever get what we deserve if we make the choices that are best for us. No one knows what is best for us, more than we ourselves do.
There is no shame in doing the best...
Being open and willing to express your feelings is difficult; no matter your age and experiences being truly open is difficult. Relationships can fail under the strain of the lack of vulnerability. When your partner doesn't feel that they can't see or even know the real you... it can sometimes be the end of something that should have lasted.
The ideas that float about in my head deserve attention. Are they always the best things to share?
Maybe not. But there are things that need to be purged from the brain.
In time, maybe, I will empty the reservoir and things may slow.
I am only better each day because I am spilling ideas onto my keyboard.
The worst thing one can do is blame others for their misfortune. Why is it that when things are going well then we take full credit, but in failure there is blame to hand out to others?
It's a losing attitude to choose to give that power to anyone else. Take responsibility for each and every choice for each and every day. In doing so, we can find victory in any situation.
No matter the situation, we arrived there by our own choices. The important thing in life is to always make choices that move us toward the places that we want to be. If you make choices for the benefit of others you will almost always fail yourself.